Constructing your mind by destructing my soul.

Abuse is not funny. Abuse should not be a joke or joked about. Abuse is not related to a religious affiliation, steareo-type or gender. All it depends on is how psycho you are. Where you place your heart is where you place your actions (be a Utilitarian). Display abuse, point it out. Stand up for what you beleive in. SPEAK UP. Educate. Don't LAUGH it off, because all the tells me is that you have internalized it. Or that you've been through it, but most likely that you do it. We all do it, and we all go through it, therefore we all internalize it. It becomes the norm because it is OK to blame the victim, OK to turn the other cheek and OK to put a stranger's face on pain to avoid confrontation of our reality. You've been through it, so now it is OK to laugh about it. Laughing about abuse is like laughing about the thing that hurts you the most: mine is abuse, but maybe yours is heartbreak, bills, disability or being fat.


Your abuser does not know he is an abuser because society defends him, respects him, protects him. Don't be a chauvinist, it disgusts me.