To whom ever you get married to,

please, please, PLEASE (and i know youve heard this a million times) don't cheat on her, nor should you follow the "don't cheat, or don't get caught" rule. don't hurt her, dont fight with her, dont yell at her. dont deprive her from your love and attention. you are nothing more than her, a beast in the animal kingdom craving what she craves but in different aspects. i think a big reason to why i sometimes hate men so much is because i see the men presant in my life treating the women they allegdly "love" like shit. every second of everyday. she tries long and hard to make him see how much shes doing for him, just to get a smile, a thank you perhaps. or she will try long and hard to be the worst person in the world just to to see a frown, or a chance to pick another fight. in both cases its you she wants, in both cases its your attention she desires. there is no reason to yell at a five year old, for a child is an immature being jus looking for fun. there is no reason to yell at your wife, for your wife is the woman of your life, the woman of your dreams, the woman YOU chose to spend the rest of your earthly time with. no good ever comes from negative energy, so why spread it? if you cannot communicate with her, how do ou expect yourself to live an entire day happy, satisfied, and peaceful? without the mutual understandings, your outside aura; corrupted. youre inside aura, deprived from the outside oxygyn. marry her with open arms, love her with respect, and treat her like a human being.
raising your voice on a female does not and will not take you to higher places, and abusive behavior will never give you a good night's rest no matter how much you justify it. think of hurting a woman like hurting a cell phone. throw the cell phone in water, you can always change the cover of the phone to make it look better, but the inside software will always be wet, broken, and hurt. spoil her with your love, shes all you have for the rest of your life, parents dont live forever, and children run off with their loved one to start their own families. look up right now at the face the person you wil be looking into for the rest of your life, feel the spark, and just smile at them. the things a simple smile can do to a person, the warmth, the mushy feelings, and the positive energy it brings. and to all the ladies out there, love like youve never been hurt, betrayed, lied to, back stabbed, cheated on, hated on, bullied by, abused, violated, assaulted. let it go and love with all your heart, seriously, all men want is good food and good love. if this is the person you chose to live with, then it should be the person who deserves your best, your all, your everything (your best cooking, and your best love), because you will always get twice the amount back (food translated into materalistic goods,or at least for me!). promise yourself not to be abusive, humerless, or mean. there is no need to lie to your loved ones, if they truly love you they will not leave your side, and if you truly love them then there would be no reaosn to lie in the first place. do the things you love to him, take care of him when he's sick so he can get you a presant when he feels better (it takes two to tango). carry your heart on your sleeve, exploid the weak person you are, and dazzle them with your strongest aspects. trust them with your life. a married life should be a fun adventure, a roller coster, like a camping trip. you never know what neck of the woods you will end up in, but make sure youre holding hands when the next chapter turns, because you will both have to lay dead when the bear attacks, the bear is the problem, and you can't solve a problem by tossing your husband at the bear and making a run for it! youre going to want a piggy back ride when you slip and break you foot running.
like a music video, dance your life away. you only have one shot, i dont understand why you would want to be misreable. JUST SMILE,SERIOUSLY. DO IT. RIGHT NOW!!!!!!!!